When dealing with a new sub, it is important to me as a Dom to be able to build in my mind a gnosiological pattern of his mind and ways of reacting to stimuli, such as, but not limitedly to, pain. It is one of the most scary stimula for most of the less experienced subs in BDSM, and even more for those who are betas and / or people submitting for a specific man, outside of their comfort zone. Not […]
*** This article was written during a past relationship; I am not Owned anymore by NikeLeatherman, but I am proud of the path we did together, and want to keep the article*** Back in the ancient times, to the roots of human history when society as we conceive it today has reached its golden age, hierarchies were something deeply considered and the actual roots of all tribes and social structures. If you think about how the Greeks would have a […]
I’ve been writing before about WOLF. I think though that being it very difficult for me to write about it, I didn’t quite make a good job. Also now, as I’m writing these lines, I can feel a hum inside of me, raising its volume to the point I don’t even know how to type anymore. WOLF doesn’t want to be exposed with writings. WOLF exposes itself in the flesh. At times, you’ll recognize when WOLF is really present, as […]
Note: this article is filled with hyperlinks with useful informations. Do click on the greyed bold words to follow the reading in it’s hyperlinked references. Sit. Stay. Good boy. k9, dog training, pup play. These are all terms quite known in the BDSM – Fetish community (more in the second one, actually). but it has always been something quite narrowed down to a selected minority inside the vaste world of fetishes. It is a pretty common practice that Masters like to […]
“You look hot in your leathers” they say. “Woof Sir, wonderful leather jeans”. “Wow, love you in your boots”. Let’s say that inside of the “community” the WHY behind the WHAT, regarding wearing leather, is not something of which is felt the need of clarity; not that much. And this is, in my not so humble opinion, a big problem. But here today I want to talk to the other fellows; the ones outside the community, wondering why on earth […]
What is BDSM? This is one of the question I got asked so many times in the past 3/4 years. It is hard to answer this question, not really because of a lack of knowledge about what BDSM is, but because of the loneliness and the discomfort this questions throws me in. It’s not easy to be remembered each day that your “lifestyle” (it is not a lifestyle, but let’s try to stick to simple words with wide meanings) is […]